Dining in nice restaurants is an integral part of my Walt Disney World vacations. I enjoy eatng in restaurants so much that I have started to go out a couple of times a month when at home, usually to inexpensive places like IHOP or Chilis.
When I dine out, I have certain expectations of the server. If the server meets these expectations, he or she will get the customary 15% tip. Exceed them, and the tip will exceed 15%. Fall short of them, and the tip begins to erode like a Presidential approval rating...
"WillCAD's Four Simple Rules for Serving Me and Getting A Good Tip:"
2006-02-06
1. Don't let me see the bottom of my glass!
Bringing new sodas is the easiest part of the job, and I don't go through a glass of soda that quickly. If my glass goes empty and stays that way for more than a few minutes, the tip begins to erode quickly.
2. LOOK AT ME!
Every five minutes or so, as you pass by my table, just look over at me so I can get your attention if I need something. I don't expect you to ask me "Everything okay can I get you anything how's your food are you having a good time didja see Survivor the other night?" every five minutes, but a simple glance in my direction periodically would enable me to raise my soda glass to motion for a refill, or make a signing motion to ask for the check, or wave you over if I have a question.
3. Be polite and just a little cheerful.
You don't have to kiss my butt or pretend to be my best friend, and you don't have to act like you won the lottery to have me as your customer - just don't act like your dog died when you take my order. And impatient, surly, and arguementative is no way to go though life, son. Well, it is for me, but not when I'm dealing with a client/customer/general public.
4. Make it right.
If you make a minor mistake, or the kitchen screws up my food, I don't expect you to act like you just shot Old Yeller. Forget the sackcloth and ashes routine, just say, "I'm sorry, I'll take care of that" and take care of that. Actions speak way louder than words. Ignoring it or getting grumpy when I point out something wrong is the fastest way to get a lousy tip from me - or none at all.
And most importantly, have a nice day!